since my sister in law & nephew moved out things are alot more mellow around here.. STILL.. grumbles When I take baths {it's in the other bathroom not attached to our bedroom} If they are up I ask if my FiL

to use the restroom or anything. I ask cuz I leave the door unlocked. My MiL has a weak/leaky bladder & it's easier for both of us for me to just leave the bathroom door unlocked. I went in this morning at 4am

both were asleep so I go ahead hop in - as I'm nearing the end I hear my FiL plotting about - I say clearly I'll be out in a few minutes. Next thing I know he opens the door >< I cover quickly and am like i'll

be out in a few. I don't know if he was so sleepy he didn't hear me.. or he doesn't care. When they first moved in he'd walk around nude {at night to go piddle & such} But yah.. Catching sight of his erm.. yah

It's bad enough I feel edgy with the way he acts & likes to push buttons but I think by now {after 8yrs} if the bathroom door is SHUT but not locked I'm taking a bath. He shuts the door - mom doesnt lol so yah.

that's disrespectful

..yah well harrold is a disrespectful person >< to put it politely lol

your husband needs to put him in his place

lol harrold and hubby are like water & oil they do NOT get along - in fact they haven't gotten along since harrold became charles 'step dad' lol. I mean i don't care what harrold see's cuz he isn't interested -

but i also know he's not exactly on the top of the maybe nice guy list lol

no. that's not OK though. you are all adults and he needs to show you respect

yes well that's why i'm going to be locking the door from now on and mom will just have to wait til i get out to let her in or go use my bathroom to pee

good or she can get a chamber pot

lol I don't think she'd use a chamber pot lol

lol

.. Wow. Yeah, I only leave the door unlocked cause of my own kids

If they aren't home for whatever reason I'm like nope.