Hmm, he wants them to be healthy he worries about loosing a loved one that way a lot. That they are kind is also really important to him. He's pretty tactile so it helps a lot if they like to be touched. ..
Kink wise he loves really loves cunnilingus and or using his fingers on a lady. With either gender he digs frottage [touch!] and holding onto or holding up his partner. He's kind of a work horse when it comes..