2. She has had an extremely rough life (raped and a kidney transplant for example) and is very insecure. She needs lots of friends and support at the funeral BUT
most of her co-workers are not Catholic and she is very afraid few people will show up due to the length of Mass and/or because of Mass. (a lot of misconceptions on what we do and why we do it)
Eternal rest grant unto him O Lord and let Perpetual Light shine upon him. May his soul and all the souls of the faithful departed, through the Mercy of God, Rest in Peace. Amen!
Oh man, the LONGEST funeral I have ever been to was at a funeral home, and it was long winded relatives telling stories that made it long, mass is NBD really comparatively, Lord bless her!