I shut off my privacy settings for this
Also if anyone knows of reputable Paypal alternatives I am all ears
Good luck beebin
Apologies in advance that this will be showing up regularly for a while
Liking so I can find this one again when I have time to write up what I'm looking for so we can talk.
!!!! thank you so much ;;
If you don't have a PM from me by morning, bother me for it.
also if any of you are on tumblr, please reblog it there as well!
bumping this again just in case
okay at this point....I don't know what to do.
I have half a month to make up $300 for rent
or completely deplete my moving budget
I'm going to be absolutely fucked because my roommates are fucking morons who don't consider other people
"oh hey after we get married he's going to re-enlist in the military RIGHT THEN AND THERE instead of waiting until the lease is up"
"and you'll probably be left to pay for all the utilities too"
I've only received one commission so far so please...
//replurks and also peeks in here// I do need some DW icons...
It's going to take 3-5 weekdays for money to get into my paypal account, but would you be okay with reserving a spot?
Of course! I....haven't had that many so far, hahaha....
the joys of an unprivated plurk
Added a link to my gofundme on the main plurk header
Just because it looks like my entire moving fund will be depleted
I don't know what I'll do if I have to spend another year in this godforsaken town.
Please, guys...if any of you can spare anything at all, I would greatly appreciate it.
I am now being blamed for all of this couple's problems
who I thought was my friend
And now because they prodded me into coughing out $300 for rent I have no more money for moving at all
And in her own fucking words "I don't care if you're homeless"
Because it's ME that has used ALL the electricity, it's ME that's such a terrible inconvenience.
I have nowhere to go anymore
I can't go back to my family
not when they've said things like how people like me should be shot on sight
I don't know when this bitch is going to decide to have me thrown out onto the street
(which....I don't think she can, considering I paid rent)
Still, I...can't keep going like this
Also, if you contact the landlords and say they're skipping out on the lease, you may be able to negotiate only being responsible for your share of the rent.
I can't live in a place where I have a neurotypical, ableist entitled princess screaming things like "If it were US we would have a job by now!!!" like she's my fucking mother.
how they're screwing me over?
Leaving in the middle of next month.
"By the way you're paying all the utilities"
either way I'm completely and utterly fucked.
I now have no more money.
It took me an entire year just to save up enough for the move
Only to have it crash and burn
I can't afford to keep this lease up
I'm so fucking scared and trapped right now
either way I'm not going to their goddamn wedding at this point so that's one less thing I have to worry about.
I'm not going to make it, am I.
I think you can. Have you looked up emergency housing assistance for your state?
I have till the end of Feb to find a job
I've never been gaslighted so bad in my life
"you sleep all day and don't go anywhere!!!!" bitch you wouldn't know, you sleep until late afternoon
I can't stand being gaslighted
This is all so fucked up.
I've been working my ass off trying to find a job and some early-twenties entitled prick deliberately triggers me, splendid
But I still think you can get through it.
I wish I knew a way I could help more than listening and trying to be supportive, here. x.x
I wish I could pull you into a blanket pile.
....I don't even know if there's any hope anymore
lol. If I got myself knocked up I'd have all the government assistance ever
shit the only thing I haven't done is sex work
Wonder how much pictures of my feet are worth
My family is legit like "YOU NEED HELP OUR HELP SPECIFICALLY"
"WE'RE GOING TO FIX YOU WITH JESUS"
I am also willing to type up the entire conversation I had with this uncle.
I just didn't think it was this bad.
GUYS. If someone you know has a couch they are willing to lend out in Flagstaff, AZ please send them my way.
Sadly I don't know anyone out that way. But... /replurks and tosses in some $
okay so I can use my paypal credit to commission a piece, and I'll give you money either way, but if I'm gonna get a piece, I'm wondering, would you do a portrait of my cat?
and if you're not comfortable doing a portrait of my cat, can I please give you what I can afford?
It has to be through paypal though because that's the only way I have money, everything else is tied up making sure I have food and shit.
this is the entire conversation.
lasafara: I have a really hard time with cats at present, I'm sorry.
I don't have the opportunity to do studies of animals nearly enough
But paypal is fine, but I don't want you to not be able to get food. Food is important.
oookay, I've been kinda wanting to commission a picture of my character holding his baby, not sure what kind of reference images you'd need
I'm flat broke but I'll send good energy your way and I'm so sorry this is happening (and worried for you)
God reading that about gave me flashbacks. It's so abusive
I'll boost again for what that's worth, but I am broke as a joke.
ashavah: I actually have several commissions I need to get done, but I am so strapped for time at this point that I have to make a waiting list, if that's all right
TheMirr: yeah, I am fine with that, I am in no rush
No I kinda figured it would be, not your fault. Just. I hate I can't help
still sending you the best wishes here also!
Good luck
themirr, I gave what I could I'm praying for you
this bitch is like a fucking rabid....bitch
every time I try to stand up for myself she pulls shit like this
IT HAS LITERALLY FUCKING NOTHING TO DO WITH HER
This was a thing between me and her now husband BEFORE THEY GOT MARRIED
NOT ONCE HAS HE SAID A FUCKING WORD
They KNOW I barely have enough money to get out of here with
Don't give her anything. Get out of there asap. What can she do? Take your to court with money she doesn't have?
^^ this. It would cost her more to try and take you to court than what she's claiming you owe her.
I even had the receipt for the fucking ramen that started all this and she still insists she bought it
then let her continue to insist. there is no need to give any fucks about this
Just leave. Flip her the bird as you go. The ONLY thing she can try to do is guilt you.
She has no legal standing, no moral standing, and any court of law will laugh her out of the courtroom if she tries to sue.
You owe NOTHING here, and don't let them make you think you do.
I just wish I had a law student buddy to run this by
you're better off just ignoring their existence until you get out of there
I just don't want to be tangled up in a lawsuit over something that wasn't even an issue until I questioned her power
I want them to fuck off so I can move in peace
You WON'T be tangled up in a lawsuit.
One, they'd need the money to do it.
Two, they'd need the knowledge, which is sounds like they really don't have.
And three, they'd need some measure of legal standing.
You can safely tell them "Fuck off" and there's not a thing they can do.
It just sucks that the one person i used to consider a friend won't even correct her and just goes along with whatever she says
so if they do decide to file suit and waste everyone's time, would I have the grounds to counter for court costs and distress? Since they're basically trying to fuck me over right before a move that's already
good news is my uncle may be an asshole about this whole thing but he's willing to help me move instead of me renting a UHaul
still dont give them money
yeaaaah it really sounds more like an intimidation attempt than anything...
Yeah, they're just trying to scare you into giving them the money. All bluff
These fucking morons overdrew their account
Point at them, laugh, and get the hell out of there.
yeah I can't say I'm super surprised
I got a job that pays 10.50 an hour
And got approved for an apartment.
.........It still doesn't feel real
I keep waiting for something else to happen
that screws everything up
I'm moving on a wing and a prayer
and not much money till i get paid on Friday but
whoa nice!
I'm so glad. I was worried about you.