Oh no . So hard on you all

Oh no!

Yeah. She has always ranked boys above girls. My lovely 19yo niece gets no credit. But my lovely N is just annoying to her.

My grandmother's favouritism still shows through too. Like the letters from my grandfather's cousin in Paisley, which make it clear

she always provided updates on him, but not on us. Even though we lived 40 miles from said cousin.

Sad aside, cousin Nancy's only son is also bipolar (as was my Dad).

And families need to keep in touch for that sort of reason. At the least. Grandmothers are like that tho. My mum's mum seemed to have little time for her or us.