labels are hard for gender, but at simplest, I personally identify as agender and I have a weird relationship with pronouns

I'll typically accept any in a sense

and also an aro-ace of the non-repulsed variety

I'm iffy with the aro label because I do get attracted romantically to people but I don't have confidence whatsoever that I could maintain a relationship out of mental health issues and trauma

so Tentatively aro, but asexual for sure

my family knows nothing. HAHAHA

the gender binary is strong in Japan and it's a pretty conservative country overall and if I even tried to begin to explain to my family it'd just be frustrating

I'm pretty free about sharing it in my English speaking communities though.

if you ask I'll answer, kind of thing

I'm very happy because a friend of mine at uni turned out to be agender too and now we have a Bonding and they asked me what my pronouns were and I was like

I've been in a total of One relationship and it crash sunk terribly when I realised how easily my paranoid pd + anxiety can get out of control BUT we managed to still be friends

I think girls/feminine people are goddamn cute and deserve a lot but I think I've only been romantically interested in guys/masculine people so who kno

tho like granted my ideal dating is like friendship cranked up to 11, so I would date Sam too u~u

this has been a thoughtful plurk

I'm also running on 2 hours of sleep right now haha help