yeah it happens.... but not as frequently as people are looking for it

Oof...you gotta go through A LOT of toads first.

I found it. Been living across the pond with Yak for over six years now.

You are one of the lucky ones! I love stories like yours.

I had a sl friend who was in love and even hooked up with a person several times in RL. Then she found out she was being cheated on. She was devastated. Still conflicted.

found it. indirectly via SL, but SL nonetheless.

and it's been 7 years.

Yeah....I did have a few RL/SL "hookups". They were good for what they were, but this is better.

I'm one of that lucky few, too, but... yeah, looking for it anywhere is a bad idea, in my experience.