But

Everytime i bring it up she acts like im attacking her or my brother or anyone from his fiances family and it turns into me having to assure everyone that they aren't horrible people despite the fact that they sure as hell are acting like horrible people

my job is not to console you for feeling bad about your own in ability to use my right name and pronouns, that is not and never will be the topic of this conversation

This conversation is about asking everyone to cut it the fuck out, and maybe getting my mom to realize the reason i hide in my room when my brother and his fiance come over is within 5 minutes of them walking through the door i'd been misgendered 13 times and deadnamed 10

I guess right now im especially sick of it coming off a week in a place where i never once heard my old name and everyone only knew me as gwen...

/holds

I wish I could just fight them for you

and by fight them I mean stand there and be like LET ME EXPLAIN U A THING

Thank you both <3