dhjgf are you okay now?

im just feeling really sick to my stomach

the gender essentialism and sheer, unrelenting lack of empathy these people have while arguing that theyre the ones with the high ground is staggering and makes me fucking ill

because god forbid that i dont gel with the "yes lets call this character that hates being the gender theyre forced to be as actually factually that gender"

gee i wonder why other trans ppl might want to shy away from that and prefer to headcanon the character in a different direction away from the source of their gender misery

like its a shitty "cis person forced to live as other gender!" transphobic narrative either fucking way and we have our different reasons for wanting to headcanon it different ways but ffs the guilting over not doing it one particular way

gwyndolin was forced to live as a daughter because of sexist reasons, because he was born frail (unmanly!) and he had an affinity with the moon, which is considered feminine. and it was decided that it would just be improper to let a boy like that exist so they forced that boy to be a girl

nd he was miserable

he was even given a ring to wear that had enchantments that forced his body to move a certain way and may have even caused his body to change

the description of that ring is:

"A divine ring granted to the Darkmoon Gwyndolin in his youth.

Causes males to perform female actions, and vice-versa.

Gwyndolin was raised like a daughter through the aura of the moon, and was said to behave like a sullen brooding goddess. ""

and people literally use this as PROOF that hes a canon trans woman and likes being a girl

are they incapable of human fucking emotion???

"um but sweaty it says he behaved like a goddess why would he behave like a goddess if he wasnt a girl hmmm sweaty. why does he present feminine if he isnt a girl sweaty"

gee i dont fucking know, maybe because his dad told him to?

he literally spends his days moping by his dads tomb because he loves his dad more than his dad could ever deserve and clearly holds him in high regard

not to fucking mention

did you fuckers miss the "sullen and brooding" part

MAYBBE HE BEHAVED LIKE A SULLEN AND BROODING GODDESS BECAUSE... HE HATED IT???!

fucking shock of a thought

thank fuck hes a fictional character bc this makes me massively upset

People are AWFUL about these things yeah and I'm so sorry it causes you so much hurt...