I'm pissed and not going to say anymore right now other than my MIL is a bitch and I'm glad we didn't drive downstate now. I'd rather just sit in the house up here and not do anything or see friends all weekend than have to put up with her hate for even 5 minutes
who could even blame you
no one needs to deal with that
I'll explain tomorrow. I need to be able to sleep tonight though.
eww
EWWW
And because shit splatters when hit: sending hugs to you and your husband.
yeah. basically we were going to drive down, drop the trailer off, spend some time with MIL so she could see the baby and see Bratling before school starts Tuesday
and then drive back up
hubby had called her to say we were coming and she just launched into him about everything she decided was wrong
she ambushed me when I was down last week asking me who the father of the baby was, and you know what? I really didn't feel comfortable discussing that or that it was her business whatsoever anyway
so she yelled about that and how Brattiest is "taking advantage of us" and she's spoiled and lazy and ungrateful
I just wanna shake this woman
all of which is bullshit, because she was working 2 jobs and worked herself sick. we MADE her quit working. hell, she was working and still couldn't pay childcare (and her husband was the lazy one) and wouldn't ask for help, and that's why
the other grandparents have temporary custody of the other 2 girls, because she couldn't pay childcare, so she asked them to help out
she worked 62 days straight without a day off. she worked off the clock to close the store, because she was management and she wouldn't do that for the employees but stuff needed to be done
so yeah, don't dare say any of those. yeah, she made some poor decisions, but who doesn't in their teens and early 20s?
anyway, then she also bitched to hubby about something about Bratling and some flashcards she'd made for her, which you know what? she had a few days before school. doesn't the kid deserve a break?
and what is 5 more days of drilling with flashcards going to do when school does start next week? not to mention we have chores and responsibilities up here, like arranging the house and getting her set for school and his stuff at the church
oh, and then she bitched about me because I was going to try to get up at 730 or 8 when I was down there because I had errands to run before I left, like an oil change, etc.
and I wanted to make sure I got up here at a decent hour (before dark)
so she bitched at me because I slept in clear until NINE AM ZOMG
since I was up 3 times in the middle of the night with a fucking crying infant
so yeah. she can suck the lint from my non-existent left nut
oh, and because she asked me to bring pasties down. I bought her 4. she said she'd pay. I mentioned they were $24 before I left, and she got pissy and said she didn't have the money.
so she yelled at him for that, too
Jesus fucking Christ. no matter what problems my hubby might have, I give him at least a bit of a pass for having grown up with her. I'm surprised he's even able to pass as somewhat normal sometimes
I give you props for not just straight up destroying her, good lord I'd have lost any degree of patience by now and just dropkicked her into oblivion 
oh, and then she said they're sick. don't come down.
which at this point I don't know if it's a like or not
*lie
don't much care
I'm happy I don't have 2 400+ mile back to back days driving. and I don't have to put up with her being a bitch
god fuck her
I don't even get why she's so hateful 
not even worth the worry honestly
<3 
