so now we've got a not even 8 year old kid confused. she just came up and asked me out of the blue. MIL didn't even. other to ask if it was ok or tell us she said it so we'd be warned

it wasn't that we were hiding it, but we weren't going to say any yet until it came up, because confusing situation and all

What the hell is wrong with that woman?

I have no fucking clue

....oh, FUCK her. That was for you two to discuss with her, in your own time and way.

how do you tell a little kid it's just for insurance/financial security until her mom is married/graduated/financially stable?

Jesus Christ.

Oh my god, no, that's not okay

and this on top of the crap the other day? I'm just done

end her

Jfc wth. Why would she think that's even ok?

Or even do that

who even knows wtf she does anything?

/seeeeeeethes

I don't get how any normal person could think that's in any way shape or form, fine

oh wait. yeah. she's not normal

OMFG

pretty much, yeah

<3

hubby on board with an 86?

hubby doesn't know about this latest

Oh man.

I am so, so sorry, because I know this is going to hurt.

you know, this isn't even the worst she's ever done

Yeah, but it is harming a kid, and it still sucks.

she kicked out my daughter and her husband once (they were actually defending HER against my brother in law) and they had to ride 1100 miles home on a greyhound with an infant and toddler (they took them kids out just so she could see them)

I wasn't there for that one and can't say exactly all that happened, but Jesus Christ, unless someone is threatening violence, that's beyond ridiculous