I feel awkward meeting with a college guy friend, although we are close and zero malice at all. He's married and wife doesn't know me. I have delikadesa not to meet up kasi weird. unless kasama wife then i think it is ok
flaircandy: I think women in general are more conscious of that dynamic. Men think it's ok to meet with other girls without their SO, women naman think it's iffy.
Tell him he's got to make sure to tell his wife he's meeting with a college girl friend. Let the wife give consent or ask to come along on her own accord.
Alam ba ng wife you're meeting up? Agree. When in doubt, don't. Iwas drama. Pero if it's like "omg I haven't seen you in forever, let's catch up" then why not him and his wife. When I meet up with friends who come to Tokyo, I bring Nicky and introduce him to them <3