They're pretty ok with my being engaged to a lady thing, as in we just don't speak of it. And so it's just mostly pleasant chatting.

Jehovah's Witnesses to boot.

It's actually sorta nice because I was pretty plain and up front about A loving a Lady and B I don't actually believe in god but if I did I rather think he's a dick.

And they don't mind if I yell about it because I'm coming with the up front and sincere position that if He was real this is how I FEEL about him. Which I guess gets points because they're so focused on the fact he has a Name and is there for a Person.