I wonder nothing. I was tired of deciphering pseudonyms

I love the community, how everyone is there for one another.

Me too!

I misread this as nonAN love in thread!

I am thankful for all the constructive help I got this summer, starting with suggestions for supporting my then bf's smoking-but-gonna-quit phase, the sudden AF breakup, then his ditching our friendship too. I know it isn't universally easy to sympathize with me in my non monogamous relationships...but I appreciate every one who tries, supports, listens.

I honestly never expected I'd want to get back together with someone who obviously has issues with substances use/abuse, basic trust & long term commitment. But I do and it's so good to know I've got friends here who can remind me of what's healthy and what's good.

(and yes I know it wouldn't be healthy nor good to pick up where we left off.)

this space has provided me with a lot of sanity over the years when everything else seemed to be madness. I'm not the best at replying and a large number of times I have written and deleted because the words weren't right and then the conversation moved on

I didn't participate in the anony-thread but I did recognise some of the sentiments. FWIW I love you all, I still read (here and FB) daily and read LJ at least weekly. I don't comment as much as I "should" / would like to, for all sorts of reasons, and I also don't post a great deal. When I do post, I don't use filters.

If anyone isn't friends with me on FB and wants to be I'm happy to accept friend requests. I haven't ever explicitly decided not to friend anyone from here, or friended and then de-friended - I'm just rubbish at keeping track of who I'm linked to on different sites.

this space is important to me, and one where I have to filter much less that FB or other places. I very much appreciate all of you.

I love this space and all my AN peeps. I don’t know what I would do if I didn’t have you all to listen, offer advise and occasionally knock some sense into me! I do have 2 FB accounts, (one was for gaming a long time ago) so it’s possible that some aren’t connected on FB. If not, let’s connect! I don’t filter except on LJ and that’s only from family.

I definitely love this space. Facebook is my "put on a happy face and share a cat picture" place and this is not. I do miss a lot of the people who have stopped sharing here, but that's their business, not mine.

jentifred, same here. Sometimes I feel like all I do is whine here so I try to add more variety. But for sure I'm not sharing that stuff on FB. And I've long ago abandoned LJ.

^^^ this. Well, except that I'll share a bunny pic instead

I use FB mostly to share pics with my family and see theirs (and buy clothes). Otherwise I mostly just scan through to see what people are up to. I hate the FB algorithm though. It seems like I never see all the posts. That’s what I like about LJ and Plurk. All of the posts are there, I just have to scroll to see them all.

I realized I actually use FB most of the time for a particular game I can't find elsewhere (Connect 2020)!

I haven't been posting on FB as much (or here) but I read all the time. I miss plurk being more active but I realize I'm partly at fault for that too by not participating more.

I go in and out in terms of posting but read and try to respond regularly, and I love you all!

I post too much lately and my grammar is atrocious. I appreciate everyone putting up with it and giving me support. This is one of the only places I have to express everything and I value it greatly. Even before this, I valued having a place to connect here. I just don't do that much on Facebook. It isn't private enough.