I can't decide if I'm just being shallow, or I just hate being deceived. A guy I was dating kept saying he's on Keto diet. He's thicc, or actually more than thicc, but he keeps saying he's on Keto so I'm like ok, at least he's working on keeping fit. I didn't mind him being round, I care more about him doing things to stay healthy. (cont.)
But I visited his house and caught 2 litre bittles of coke in his room!!!
🙄 Parang... Okay I knew it. Cz I was on legit keto and it really was effective, and I know friends who did it religiously. This guy was just all talk. Wala lang. Just felt deceived. I felt guilty now that I'm avoiding him but hello... Sana naman either he owned up to it in the beginni g or if he really wanted di nag keto muna siya ng totoo.
Am I a bad person?
ugh, keep away. if he lied about that, what else will he lie about?
Pag sinungaling sa keto mas sinungaling sa ibang bagay
Cancelledt na. Curious though: why did he lie to you in the first place? Did he know that you’re on keto?
AdeMagnaye, I dunno man. It looks pretty red to me.
jrl26: I never told him, unless he stalked my social media... He talked about keto as if he knows I know everything about it :/
evilmartian: Oh caught him lying about other things. Kaya end na.
AdeMagnaye: Right? I saw the bottles of coke and I was like, I thought you’re on Keto. He said, his mom was an enabler, gave that to him. So it’s like he never stopped.
flaircandy: Just to impress you? I think if you’re still interested with the person, better confront him na lang to clear things up
AdeMagnaye: Also, he could’ve told me he was struggling on that department because I could really help. But after seeing that he’s been deceiving, also lazy, I endt it na.
Sometimes I think I’m just being shallow.
I don't know you well enough to tell you you're being shallow. Being deceived is a whole 'nother matter, which you obviously handled already.
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I don't think it's being shallow. You just have your own quirks. I personally don't like lying either, even if they are tiny white lies.
Baka maling keto diet nabasa nya, nilinlang ang sarili. 😂
It's fair to think you were deceived, IMHO.
It's fair to think you were deceived, IMHO.
UPDATE: I told him everything. Cold hard truth. He seems to be in limbo, cant move on or still kept thinking “why.” So, I told him. I don’t care if he thinks I’m mean. He should be thankful. It’s also hard and effort for me noh... I mean I also think about it, it consumes my time. But yeah. Thanks friends for all your insights. Very helpful.☺️