woman, I've actually held on and chosen a sober pretty one instead of something geek or weeb or cutesy. I chose something I felt it was adult enough to use at work ir school without looking like a 12 year old
I can't even hang those from mine. for lacking the hole thing and also I work with a lot of adulting people who adult and I don't want to come out as weeb
I don't know, she even helped me decorate my room which is flowery purple so. I would assume she was fine by it and would just be unnerved by the shape or level of protection