There are a lot of people on Plurk and in the DWRP community at large who are abuse survivors of some sort or another. If (general) you are going to try and debate the intricacies of this situation, perhaps tread carefully and/or think a little about whether this is the hill you want to die on, and why you want to do so.
If you do choose to go ahead and debate, it can very easily make you look like you're arguing in bad faith, even if you don't think you are. I reserve the right to ban people who do so from this account, as I do this for fun. And I have done so today in some cases.