If you want to delve deeper, I'm probably closer to Autochorissexual, but that's harder to explain and not usually something I consider a casual acquaintance's business. Also there's rarely stickers/shirts/flags for that, lol.

I considered myself bi for most of my adult life, and honestly, between pan and bi, I consider them kissing cousins in terms of definition. Look, whichever you consider the most inclusive, that's me.

It wasn't until my mid to late 30's, when suddenly there were all these new terms to definie sexuality and gender, did I suddenly realize that... okay, I'm not just fucked in the head, I am not actually cis, I am not "just" bi, I am more complicated than that.

But considering I haven't been on a date in 20+ years, it's not like I really have to have these discussions very often.