the previous post already has 11 sub-posts so I'm making a new one. but I'd like to make a list instead. It was about my 1 yr and (almost) 3 months + 2 months (dating) = 1.5 months of experience being with him. A lot has happened, this relationship is a hell of a roller coaster ride (no regrets). See comments for more details. Lol
1. 12/29/21
- We became official
2. 12/31/22 - 01/01/22
- Our 1st NYE together
- It was a rainy night, we weren't able to spend the night as planned and stayed in the worst hotel room ever.
- I caught him attempting to pursue another girl, Loren (dated 12/12) while he was already pursuing me. He broke my trust.
- We almost broke up but he didn't allow it.
3. 01/02/22
- His birthday
- We spent it with his friends
- His friends talked to us regarding the issue.
4. 01/23/22
- Aldrone's death
- Depression came in, and for some reason our relationship is slowly fading away
5. January, his ex and her friends began to
5.1 bother me through texts, calls, twitter, facebook.
6. February
- Me begging for his attention, I needed it more than anything because my depression has already taken its toll on me.
- For several days and weeks, we've been fighting for the same thing and the issue still isn't resolved.
- His ex and her friends bothered me for the whole month.
6.1
- Broke up with him
- Spent all the nights drinking with random people.
- Ends up being hospitalized.
- Got back together
7. March
- Training VMA where there were a lot of temptations but I didn't give in
- Still, he wasn't giving me enough attention
- Decided to take him with me in Iloilo, & if I still can't see changes, I'm letting him go for good.
8. April
- Came back from Iloilo, I was about to break things off with him as I was ready and my mind was already set to do it & I was already on the moving on stage in March. lol
- He thanked me & said because of this trip his mind was refreshed & he was able to reflect on a lot of things during the trip. He even apologized & promised that he'll do better.
- mid April, he started to stay at my home secretly, my head already started aching everyday. It was very painful. He stayed to take care of me.
9. May, June
- Check ups, bought new phone, groceries, buying medicine
- He prepares food for me when I'm hungry, he reminds me to take my medicines
10. July
- He had to go to Manila for 2 weeks
- Fought almost everyday because of his broken promises and inconsistencies
- We broke up
- Got hospitalized as I wasn't able to wake up because of chronic stress, I even went code blue, but sadly, revived
- He got to communicate with my ex
- We made up, got back together
- He stayed with me again after arriving
11. August
- We almost broke up again but since we're staying under the same roof, we had no choice but to make up.
- Just recently, I knew he had plans of breaking up with me.
- We had plans on transferring to Iloilo but was moved to September for some reason.
- We went to Antique and he met my PG friends.
- (btw, March we went to Antique as well & he met Tita Cherry, Miggy, Tito Jun, Lolo Edwin, and Zandro for the first time)
12. September
- We moved to Iloilo
- Started living alone, together
- Doing groceries on our own
- His ex is still bothering me till this point
13. October
- He met Hyrold.
- He met Cris Jean, Jai.
- We went to Dgte City, where I grew up (he's the only one out of all my exes who reached this point)
- He met some of my relatives (Kuya Roy, Shane, Lola Nora)
- He met my HS friends (Apple, Alyssa, Mia, Gigi, Lou)
- He met Carlo (lol ehem) and my cousin Daphnie.
- He also met Ninang, Te Bing & Ginga
- the also met and was able to bond with Bill
- spent my birthday together
14. November
- Nothing's new. Same sickness, same problem with his ex.
- Still together, still going strong. Charot.
- His ex actually moved here in Iloilo. That's the problem.
15. December
- Started working in Legato
- Big fight, almost broke up
- He met my Mom
- 1st Anniversary