SO I'M putting this in a separate plurk so people can be warned about topics before I start venting lmao

a lot has happened in the year and a half or so that I haven't been around gkjdgfjd

I kind of disappeared because of the storm caused by a bunch of things happening at once: in the middle of both me and stick restructuring our whole lives to accommodate that we both discovered we have ASD, more and more of my time/energy was devoted to helping my family because of my brother in prison...

...and then both of stick's parents got cancer gfhdkjghjf

throw in a few other things like us getting covid, my mental health tanking hard a couple times, and then a huge move to a new apartment

also my sister has a second kid now, and he might even be BIGGER than her first one. she just gives birth to monsters I guess.

aaaaaand that's where I've been!

the giant child! I'd forgotten

I've gotten to visit him twice now! and he's still huge!! he's four and a half now somehow

I've thought of your brother a lot, I never got to sending real mail but if 🫶🏻 counts I've sent that

he's getting released!!

well... lmao... he's SUPPOSED to get out at the end of this month, but there's a complication. of course.

of course

I'm glad to hear he's hung in there and if you can pass on well wishes please do so

I will!

on that note lmao did you know you can get a warrant for your arrest WHILE being in prison??

he had court dates... but the prison didn't bring him to the meeting room to get on zoom or whatever and attend court...

so he was marked as being absent (twice) and so now has a warrant. so he might get immediately re-arrested when he leaves??? we're scrambling to try and deal with this. ugh. it's ridiculous.

Oh... My God. What a wonderful system put in place to make sure someone fails.

But it's good to hear from you. I'm sorry life has been so hard lately, but I've often thought about you and kept hoping you were doing okay.

aaaaah gosh!! ♥

I've been thinking a lot about you too!! and wishing that legato and vash threads weren't hidden somewhere that I can't read them anymore

do you have the old notifs in your email? that's how i always read old threads is through the email notifs

I knooooooow. If there is anything in particular you were wanting to re-read I could try to hunt it down and take some screen shots, but it's not the same.

oh geez, both of them got cancer?? I'm so sorry

henlo friend

marlovingian: I'll check... I think I started doing that only partway through my stay there

zigzag123: oh man... I'll see if I can think of one that isn't in my inbox somewhere

anarin: YEAH. that was a thing. first her mom, and her dad was taking care of her, then he was diagnosed and they had to go through treatment at the same time. so, helping them out became a big thing.

they're both doing much better now finally!

ClaireKI77y: hi!!! 8D

gossssh I miss all these familiar faces man

that's so much though!! I'm glad to hear they're doing better

Hi! you and stick have also been missed

I saw this really cute snail plush a month ago and thought of you guys

awwwwww