I hate putting my life on a public space but feel forced to.

I have not raised my voice nor made a public scene

I want to be able to deal with all of this without involving the internet

sorry you were up so late

why you feel forced to. You don't have to "make a scene" you know.

never takes sides, but is always willing to listen to/help everybody So I'm telling you the same thing I told Emily. If you ever need to

talk I'm here.

i am not annoyed, i just wish she would talk to me about stuff instead of talking on the internet

or at least talk to other people she cares about on the phone or in person

perhaps you guys need to discuss this together... in a calm and meaningful manner

i have tried and she gets mad at me...

again, i don't like the internet, i did that so she can see that it hurts my feelings the way she says things

but i am totally willing to talk later in person

the internet is too public for me

understands

thanks

doesn't think you are stupud

stupid*

also here to listen

understands too, and offers another ear, if you need it.

that one thing I've learned in psychology classes is that some people are just more comfortable with technology as a mediator

maybe she's uncomfortable talking in person.

we're all here for you if you need us. =)

very true, Beth. The key, though, is using technology discretely.