isn't sure the context.

if it's to do wioth plurk, the confirmation is to stop people from adding random strangers to their list Su

like I am a stranger to someone I have known since Dol brought all of us in.

so I am random, so be it.

oh... if you are talking about plurk... the software doesn't know your history. So you are both just telling plurk what you know...

already. Just a formality.

Su! it's just a formal confirmation that you both want to be on each other's friendlists on plurk, Plurk doesn't ...>

know you've known each other for so long!

ok, if you say so, I withdrew the invite it made me so mad.

the people at plurk are just trying to protect your privacy. Remember that they don't know you... so you have to fill them in...

so they can make sure that only the people you want reading your plurks are reading them.

Guess I need to not be so sensitive.

this person knows me

I'm ok to keep as a friend. I'm mostly harmless

vouch for Coll.

adds for what that's worth

hahaha, Coll did not ask to have someone vouch for him,

it's just a Plurk administration thingy Su! don't worry about it! you also need to confirm requests if you get them, so people don't..>

add you if you don't want them to.

so how do you confirm them, bet someone to vouch for you???

bet = beg

no, you get alerts, there's a little "alerts" thingy at the top of your plurk page, click that and you'll seew who wants to friend ..>

you, and an option to confirm.

or add.

the same happens when you offer friendship to someone else, they get an alert and need to confirm you as a friend

I see nothing that allows me to confirm. Older than dirt and about as smart.

Then you prolly added everyone. Don't you want to be friends with Davyhamburgers?

Think I read that somewhere.

SU, did you find the alerts?

at the top of your plurk page?

Basically: You click on his name in that plurk, then you're transferred to his page, and click that you want to become his friend.

yep, that is how I know about confirmation.

As soon as he adds you, you can then see each other's plurk.

all I get is cancel friendship

as long as you have added everyone who asked you to be friends, you're fine Su

Well, then you have to wait until he comes online again and acceptas your friendship.

if you offer someone else friendship, THEY have to add you at their end Su

I asked them.

Ok, thanks.

then it's a matter of patience.

and anyone who is in your alerts as "wanting" to be your friend, you have to click "add as a friend" to actually confirm it

Patience is one of my long suits.

Sorry if I barged in on an already quite clear conversation, btw. Didn't mean to plurk-jack.

Su!

This has been clear as mud for me. LOL

Sally!

let me hug you, and all will be better in the evening.

adds and hopes that's clear for Mum.

would love a hug from you DZ

Su

David

adds more in case plurkbuddy hid my first ones from Mum.

Down plurkbuddy!

Mumz,

Su, you'll get there don't worry!! and just keep asking if you don't understand something!

Now you all see what Sally goes through with me.

Su, if I can learn these thingees, so can you.

Sally's got the patience and the helpfulness of a saint. Just sayin'.

Oh , do you have chemo brain too.

just glad she shared you with us.

just likes helping people and loves Su, ya know

Not nearly as glad as I am. I really enjoy all of you!!!!

I know Sally. This asking people to be friends is rather strange to me. I loves you too!

no such good excuse for my slow learning. Agrees about all that other stuffz!!! Verrrry glad you're here, Su Mum!!!

Plurk were as careful when it comes to followers/fans