Even though it seems like thanks and acknowledgments for good deeds are in short supply, God notices them. When you feel like giving up because gratitude eludes, remember that God is delighted in your efforts.

妳不懂，為什麼人會變？昨天還很好，但今天就變得不好，他的溫柔怎麼在一瞬間就變成了冷漠？如果這是一種不得不，那麼，是不是愛情根本就沒有永遠？甚至，妳開始否定他曾給妳的一切，妳追究他說過的每句話，希望從裡面找到相愛的證據。那些誓言都在妳的腦中打轉，每拿出來複習一次，心就多傷一遍。他走了之後，妳像行屍走肉，因此拿淚水餵養傷口，傷痛讓妳覺得自己還活著。

但心碎並沒有藥方，妳不知道如何讓自己好起來，雖然妳很討厭把答案賴給時間去解決，但有時候自己回答不了的，有一天時間會給妳答案。而妳少數能做的，只是好好吃飯、好好睡覺，然後，提醒自己要呼吸，不要常常感覺喘不過氣。你要努力讓自己的生活維持在一定的基調上，因為有時候，連要做到這些都很難。

妳要試著把過去變成是一種紀念，而不再把傷心當成是一種生活方式。

從他給的傷心裡畢業

the greatest happiness in life is knowing that you are loved for who you are, and sometimes in spite of who you are.

And though you may be older and wiser, you still find yourself scared of the dark.

When you're little, night time is scary because there are monsters hiding right under the bed. When you get older the monsters are different. Self doubt, Loneliness, Regret.

Yes, horrible things do happen. Happiness in the face of all of that... that's not the goal. Feeling the horrible and knowing that you're not gonna die from those feelings, that's goal

Otherwise we’re in it by our self. Strangers, cut off from each other and we forget just how connect we all are. So instead we choose love. We choose life and for a moment we feel just a little bit less alone.