i'm a dude, so this is from a guy's perspective, but i think it works for both sexes. i think the protocol is to assure your partner of the whereabouts, specially that it has been made known na uncomfy sya with the other party. it's not that you're not trusted, it's making sure your partner doesn't doubt anything.

^ what kuya zero said and ill say it many times again, that wont EVER sit right w me. lets pretend na di mo ko kilala in person and this is from a lady's perspective, you are not overthinking. the whole idea is off and it's no longer about being controlling as a partner, it's more like respect and transparency. boy you are not paranoid,

theres just sumth lacking eh. awareness, dassit. das the term

zerovoltage: i agree with your pov sir. and what i think the girl is lacking in this situation is knowing that respect is important din..

respect is everything. even above love, if there is no respect there would always be conflict and no peace.

your bf is your partner. He should know these things and be able to vocalize if di siya comfy with the guy you're going out with. Pag may partner, partner's opinion matters in cases like this especially since it's regarding your well being. And yung pagsasabi mo ng whereabouts mo and who you're with (even what you're doing atm) is how you care and show your

....respect to your partner. bf = significant other kasi so kasali na yan siya sa lahat ng pinagagagawa mo and pag partnership = teamwork and most especially, trust dapat meron.

crysta17: so u agree. the girl is at fault. and the bf is stupid enough to be so trusting and kind to how he treats her?

po*

FraydChiken: the girl should also have (situational) awareness tho so it's not necessarily na she's at fault. she would be if di niya sinunod yung payo ng someone close to her like her bf or mag gather muna sana siya ng consensus, what do other people around her think of the guy she's out with who's not her bf?

but yes, ultimately, what consequence comes out of something like this, it's the fault na din ng whoever puts themselves there, going out with someone, some other disapproves of. (I won't necessarily say she's stupid, wala lang siyang awareness and air of being cautious around people she's with...or without).

that's wrong. regardless of him trusting you. that trust is a trust that you will do the right thing. wala pang paalam of any kind and it's been hours. that's wrong.