Renee Harvy
says
I'm gonna be all mom/schoolmarm here and say this. If you want to say something, but can't say it under your own name, that's your first clue that you should keep that to yourself.
simple really.
this doesn't apply of course, to situations where your life is endagered
if you are living under some repressive regime that will punish you for uttering the truth, I'm not talking about you. I'm talking about all the normal petty shitty little thoughts everyone has all day long.
if you'd be ashamed to have someone know you said it, don't say it.
and that's more than just good manners and common sense. Technologies are flawed, friendships change. No secret is ever really permanently secret.
agrees completely
Well said Renee