whenever I post something - a headcanon, a story idea, a post, a comment, a fic, anything - and nobody replies, it makes me feel sad and stupid and silly for sharing in the first place and makes me want to delete it.
Someone asks if an idea is culturally insensitive, I reply no with some basic explanations. The mod then comes in all "oh I'll check with my Japanese friend for you!", posts screencaps of said-Japanese friend's messages which is basically the exact same explanation as mine, and of course the mod gets a flowing speech of gratitude