we are scheduled to have dinner Dec 26th with oldest daughter and husband prior to this problem...

or should I ask the oldest with sick toddler and working husband to stay away christmas day?

Should I ask the youngest with the infant to stay away with husband and perhaps go to his family's home...

also the husband of the oldest, with the sick child is on call Christmas day and night and so she will be by herself with the 11 month old.

my youngest daughter has a 1 month old and they were both planning to come for Christmas dinner...

some objective advise... my oldest daughter's 11 month old has a cold/cough and her doctor said she shouldn't be near any infants

even if I am retired there are not enough hours in the day to get everything done!

making homemade spagetti sauce for hubby's birthday dinner with the kids.

to finish scraping wallpaper today... what a horrible job!

this old wallpaper would come off my kitchen wall faster.